I like to hit the bed and go to sleep at night. My wife likes to read, watch TV, and/or play on the laptop, winding down in bed before falling asleep. This has, as you can imagine, provided some interesting challenges over the years.
The compromise has really fallen in my favor, I think.
Most nights, when we get ready to go to bed, I lay on my side and my wonderful wife will scratch my back lightly until I fall asleep. That's love I tell ya'.